‘My mom has a tendency to leave my dog out and tell me she gave her away until I’m sobbing’: Teenager’s heartless mother’s threatens to get rid of her dog, pushing her to stand up for herself in a powerful act of defiance and a plan for independence

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    I (17F) have a dog whom i keep in the house with my (38F) mom and my other family members (dad and older brother). My dog
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    has been sick for a while and at first my mom refused to give me any money to take my dog to the vet saying "i shouldn't have wasted my pocket money". Which is
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    nonexistent. I don't get money from other than on special occasions. i broke the saving pot I personally saved up for a laptop MYSELF to take my dog to the vet. My
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    dog got treatment and it turns out she was sick. She has medication i have to feed her and has been quite tired as of late. She's been quiet for a week or so. Today, when my
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    mom came home, she was being loud which alarmed my dog and had her barking. I was sleeping when my mom bombarded my phone saying she'd "get rid of my dog if I didn't shut her up". My mom
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    has a tendency to leave my dog out and tell me she gave her away until I'm sobbing and then she tells me shes trying to discipline me. So when I woke
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    upl took my dog while my mom yelled and i told her she was insane for even thinking of that and that i'd call the cops if she let my dog loose again, especially since it was raining. My
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    mom has been giving me the silent treatment and my dad says I overreacted and that she was just joking which is making me second guess.
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    later 16 months I (18F) moved out of my parent's house a little while ago as soon as i could. To
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    provide some context, my parents were both emotionally abusive and have wronged me many times in my life, including threatening to get rid of my dog (which i have a whole post on). Since i moved
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    out, I've been working a job and paying rent for an apartment i share with my friend and have had enough money left to save up a bit to go to college in a few years. I am the
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    youngest in the family so after i moved out no one was left at home, both my siblings moved out as well.
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    So their financial support from my brother paying them rent for his bedroom has been cut off. I
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    am completely independent and have told my parents multiple times that i want nothing to do with them and even blocked their numbers completely.
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    Earlier this week, my grandmother called me and explained that my parents desperately need money for rent and asked if i could spare money from my college savings
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    (which i saved up on my own so far) to help them. I outright refused and told my grandmother I would not be helping at all since every penny in my savings is gathered by me working hard
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    and supporting myself. I love my grandmother and told her that if she needed help herself i was willing to help but would not help with my parents. For
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    this entire week, my aunt has been calling me repeatedly saying my parents really needed this and deserved it for raising me. My
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    mom's side of the family threatened to cut me off if i didn't help which is honestly so petty because i'm only 18 years old they should be helping instead. I told my friend about it and she said that i was
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    taking it too far and i should've helped.
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